tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8441439.post111556684633701802..comments2023-11-19T17:31:49.939+00:00Comments on Bristling Badger: to buttfuck or not to buttfuckUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8441439.post-1120041757445439962005-06-29T11:42:00.000+01:002005-06-29T11:42:00.000+01:00The reason why anyone would want to control anothe...The reason why anyone would want to control another's sexual preferences confounds me. I can only imagine that the person trying to do so either feels conscious or unconscious jealousy that someone else has not only identified what floats their boat, but has also got up and made it happen and is enjoying it immensely.<BR/>Or perhaps its just a simple question of he protests too much ...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8441439.post-1118320724623395682005-06-09T13:38:00.000+01:002005-06-09T13:38:00.000+01:00I know what floats my boat, and it's all to do wit...I know what floats my boat, and it's all to do with being forced to do things. Sucking dick? Nah. Being tied up and forced to suck dick? Now that makes me horny. Performing cunnilingus? Nope. Not a twitch. Having my head sat on by a woman, so that I'm forced to smell that pussy - Phoooaarrr!<BR/><BR/>I've had chance to do some of this stuff for real lately, and I've found that what I can stand as fantasy is more than what I enjoy as reality. In my minds eye, my tongue forced into a naked cunt will help to bring me to orgasm. In reality, I get the most out of it if she's wearing a nice pair of fairly clean knickers.<BR/><BR/>Sex is only a part of what I share with the Woman in my life. It's also a part of what I don't share with her, because we don't always feel up for it at the same time, and because frankly, I'm lazy, and a quick pull is so much easier than the full bump and grind.<BR/><BR/>But of that part, probably 10% of what actually turns me on is the sensory input (the feel of a breast, the smell of the pheromones) and the rest is what happens inside my head. The two are only loosely connected. I can be fucking my woman with gusto, while in my mind's eye, I'm at the mercy of some guy with a 10" cock.<BR/><BR/>I've tried to give some fairly concrete examples, but in reality, things are more dynamic. What used to set me off on the road to Oz a year ago will have been superceded by ideas and fantasies that have evolved since. Probably similar, and with constant underlying themes, but different. I used to get off on fantasies of forced feminisation. Now I get off on voyeurism and facesitting. There's a constant theme of domination, and particularly domination by a woman or women, but the storyline in my head is different. It helps to keep things fresh.<BR/><BR/>Anyway, I've tried taking it up the bum, and it was a mixture of discomfort and pleasure. A bit like an awful lot of what we call "Sex" I suppose. I've got more pleasure from fantasising about what happened than from the event itself, but there you go.<BR/><BR/>I sense myself losing direction on this comment. I suppose what I'm trying to say is that all of us have the potential to be anything and everything, at least sexually. Experimenting is good. Like travel, it broadens the mind.<BR/><BR/>I'll end with a few quotes.<BR/><BR/>"Understand that sexuality is as wide as the sea, understand that your morality is not law, understand that we are you." - Derek Jarman, via the godhaven quote generator<BR/><BR/><BR/>"If it feels good, do it" - Steve Bell, via the mouth of a penguin.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com